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From Betty (nickname for “Elizabeth”). In thieves’ cant a tool for wrenching locked doors is also called a Bess (from “Elizabeth”) or a Jenny. The “attractive woman” sense may relate to the character Betty Rubble in the cartoon The Flintstones.
First known use, by meaning
- from 17th century A short bar used by thieves to wrench doors open; a jimmy.
- from 18th century A picklock, skeleton key; a tool for opening locks.
- from 17th century A man who performs tasks that traditionally belong to a woman; (originally) an effeminate or gay man.
- 17th to 19th century A pear-shaped bottle covered with straw, in which olive oil is sometimes brought from Italy; a Florence flask.
- from 19th century A baked dessert made with alternating layers of sweetened fruit and buttered bread crumbs.
- from 20th century An attractive woman; a babe.
- from 19th century To pick a lock, to open with a betty.
Etymology from Wiktionary, CC BY-SA 4.0.