The story
Coined by Gavin de Becker in his 1997 self-help book The Gift of Fear.
Etymology from Wiktionary, CC BY-SA 4.0.
Today it means: The situation where an abuser attempts to forge a bond with their victim by implying that they have something in common or are in a shared predicament. Full definition →
Coined by Gavin de Becker in his 1997 self-help book The Gift of Fear.
Etymology from Wiktionary, CC BY-SA 4.0.