The story
Apparently coined by Anne Isabella Thackeray Ritchie in her 1885 novel Mrs. Dymond, although frequently now attributed to Laozi or other Chinese thinkers. Compare Chinese 授人以魚不如授人以漁 /授人以鱼不如授人以渔 (shòu rén yǐ yú bùrú shòu rén yǐ yú), which may come from the English.
Etymology from Wiktionary, CC BY-SA 4.0.