Meanings
plural S&Mers
- A participant in S&M; a sadomasochist.
Lesbians, Gay Men, Bisexuals, S/Mers, TVs and TSs have an enormously difficult life experience in common: persecution because who we love and sleep with or how we sleep with who we love (or ourselves) is different than conservative heterosexuality.
1990 April 14, Bet Power, “Who Gets To 'Belong' In The Lesbian Community Anyway”, in Gay Community News, page 5
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S&Mer. (n.d.). In WatkinsX Dictionary. Retrieved November 3, 2026, from https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/S%26Mer
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