big enough and ugly enough

adjective

Mature, grown-up, old enough (with the implication that one can look after oneself and make one's own decisions).

Meanings

adjective

alternative big and ugly enough

  1. informalMature, grown-up, old enough (with the implication that one can look after oneself and make one's own decisions).

    Don't worry – he'll come home. He's big enough and ugly enough to look after himself.

    2014, Maggie Caldwell, Deceitful Desires, →ISBN, page 345
    1 more example

    Her aunt answered, 'You just go off my child. There are two young women here who are big enough and ugly enough to help me with the dishes.'

    2002, Nokuthula Mazibuko, In the Fast Lane, →ISBN, page 59

Origin

From the notion that youth, especially children, have a more beautiful and endearing appearance, thus maturity ought to make one not only bigger, but uglier too; though, in some cases, the opposite is true (see ugly duckling and its associated fairy tale, which illustrate such a case).

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Translations

Finnish aikuinen
  • aikuinenTranslations
French majeur et vacciné
  • majeur et vaccinéTranslations
Polish pełnoletni
  • pełnoletniTranslations
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APA

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MLA

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Chicago

WatkinsX Dictionary, s.v. “big enough and ugly enough,” accessed November 5, 2026, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/big%20enough%20and%20ugly%20enough.

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