blesser

plural blessers

1. One who blesses; one who bestows or invokes a blessing.
2. South AfricaslangA rich man who offers support (typically financial and material) to a younger female companion in exchange for sex, friendship, etc.

   Other participants suggested that girls with blessers were forward or naughty girls, thus exonerating the actual blessers from blame and responsibility.

   2018, Claudia Mitchell, Relebohile Moletsane, Disrupting Shameful Legacies, page 94