blow hot and cold

verb

To behave inconsistently; to vacillate or to waver, as between extremes of opinion or emotion.

“For a week, she couldn't get enough of me. The next week, her interest blew hot and cold, and a week later she dumped me.”

Meanings

verbblow hot and cold (third-person singular simple present blows hot and cold, present participle blowing hot and cold, simple past blew hot and cold, past participle blown hot and cold)

present singular third person blows hot and cold · participle present blowing hot and cold · past blew hot and cold · participle past blown hot and cold

  1. idiomaticintransitiveTo behave inconsistently; to vacillate or to waver, as between extremes of opinion or emotion.

    For a week, she couldn't get enough of me. The next week, her interest blew hot and cold, and a week later she dumped me.

    3 more examples

    He blows hot and cold. He will speak for or against.

    1852 July 1, “New-York University: Commencement Ceremonies-Anniversaries of the Literary Societies”, in New York Times

    Geminis, like air, blow hot and cold. They go this way today and another way tomorrow.

    1968 October 25, “A Goat, Twins and a Virgin”, in Time

    The Xinhua commentary said that Chen "blows hot and cold, behaves capriciously and is a hard man to trust."

    2002 May 12, “China says DPP is only welcome if it changes platform”, in Taipei Times, retrieved 09 Jul 2008

    Synonyms: run hot and cold, suck and blow

Synonyms & antonyms

verbTo behave inconsistently; to vacillate or to waver, as between extremes of opinion or emotion.

Origin

From Aesop's fable The Satyr and the Traveller, in which a satyr declares he cannot trust a man who blows hot (to warm his hands) and cold (to cool his food) with the same breath.

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Translations

Bulgarian колебая се
  • колебая се (kolebaja se)inconsistent behavior
Chinese Mandarin 朝三暮四
  • 朝三暮四 (zhāosānmùsì)inconsistent behavior
Finnish oikkuilla, ailahdella
  • oikkuillainconsistent behavior
  • ailahdellainconsistent behavior
French souffler le chaud et le froid
  • souffler le chaud et le froidinconsistent behavior
German einmal hü und einmal hott sagen
  • einmal hü und einmal hott sageninconsistent behavior
Icelandic bera kápuna á báðum öxlum
  • bera kápuna á báðum öxluminconsistent behavior
Latin duabus sellis sedeo
  • duabus sellis sedeoinconsistent behavior
Polish Panu Bogu świeczkę i diabłu ogarek, siedzieć na dwóch stołkach
  • Panu Bogu świeczkę i diabłu ogarekinconsistent behavior
  • siedzieć na dwóch stołkachinconsistent behavior
  • siedzieć jednym tyłkiem na dwóch stołkachinconsistent behavior
Russian семь пя́тниц на неде́ле у кого-либо
  • семь пя́тниц на неде́ле у кого-либо (semʹ pjátnic na nedéle)inconsistent behavior
Spanish una de cal y otra de arena
  • una de cal y otra de arenainconsistent behavior
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Chicago

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