break it to

verb

To deliver unfortunate or upsetting news to someone.

“Look, I hate to break it to you, but Tim doesn't want anything to do with you anymore.”

Meanings

verbbreak it to (third-person singular simple present breaks it to, present participle breaking it to, simple past broke it to, past participle broken it to)

present singular third person breaks it to · participle present breaking it to · past broke it to · participle past broken it to · alternative break it · alternative break the news

  1. idiomaticTo deliver unfortunate or upsetting news to someone.

    Look, I hate to break it to you, but Tim doesn't want anything to do with you anymore.

    2 more examples

    Although I don't doubt that he'd have put much more faith in a local wizard if one had been available, he let us take the boy into the hospital tent and do what we could for him. It wasn't much, and I told my assistant to break it to poor old Calico that he must be prepared for the worst.

    1923, Ernest Bramah [pseudonym; Ernest Brammah Smith], “(please specify the page)”, in The Eyes of Max Carrados, London: Grant Richards, →OCLC

    [Spoken by a shopkeeper] Hmmm... Hate to break this to you, but you don't have enough money.

    1995, HAL Laboratory, EarthBound, Nintendo, Super Nintendo Entertainment System
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