divorced guy energy

noun

A psychological state stereotypically characteristic of a recently-divorced man, often conceptualized as being pathetic and arrogant, while also filled with anger, resentment, or melancholy.

Meanings

noundivorced guy energy (uncountable)

alternative divorced-guy energy

  1. derogatoryslanguncountableA psychological state stereotypically characteristic of a recently-divorced man, often conceptualized as being pathetic and arrogant, while also filled with anger, resentment, or melancholy.

    The Democrats’ Senate hopeful exudes a profound melancholy

    2022, Cockburn, "Tim Ryan has big ‘divorced guy’ energy", The Spectator, 1 November 2022 (used in title only)
    2 more examples

    Elon Musk shot off a car into a void, a reeking-of-divorced-guy-energy Jeff Bezos recently announced he was into space colonies, and now NASA is planning on letting private companies sell extremely expensive tickets to the International Space Station.

    2019 June 7, Harry Cheadle, “A Few Ideas for Those Rich People Who Have More Money Than They Can Spend”, in Vice

    On this chaotic, overstuffed record, West’s divorced-guy energy cannot hide his declining artistry.

    2021 August 31, Elliot Hoste, “Kanye West enters his dad-rap era with new album Donda”, in New Statesman

Origin

Adapted from big divorce energy with reference to the stereotype of men reacting to divorce more negatively than women.

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