Meanings
plural gaynesses
- datedrareuncountableusuallyThe state of being gay (colorful or festive); display or dressiness.
Let me ſpeak prowdly: Tell the Conſtable, / We are but Warriors for the working-day: / Our Gayneſſe and our Gilt are all beſmyrcht / With raynie Marching in the painefull field.
1599 (date written), William Shakespeare, “The Life of Henry the Fift”, in Mr. William Shakespeares Comedies, Histories, & Tragedies […] (First Folio), London: […] Isaac Iaggard, and Ed[ward] Blount, published 1623, →OCLC, [Act IV, scene iii], page 87, column 11 more example
And truly, at a short butt, which some men doth use, the peacock feather doth seldom keep up the shaft either right or level, it is so rough and heavy ; so that many men, which have taken them up for gayness, hath laid them down again for profit:
1545, Roger Ascham, Toxophilus; The School of Shooting, in Two Books, London: John Russell Smith, published 1866, →OCLC, page 124 - countabledatedrareusuallyThe state of being gay (cheerful); gaiety.
Synonyms: gayfulness, joy, blitheness, blithesomeness, cheerfulness, cheeriness, contentness, contentedness
- uncountableusuallyThe state of being gay (homosexual); homosexuality; demeanor stereotypically representative of it.
Were there gay people in the ancient world, or is gayness a uniquely modern category?
1999, John Corvino, Same Sex, page 1855 more examples
You cannot blame their gayness, their queerness, their homosexuality on sudden wealth.
1940 January-June, Allen Bernstein, Millions of Queers (Our Homo America), [Unpublished MS of the United States National Library of Medicine], →OCLC, page 51Tell Al Sublette I met a great new pianist called Cecil Taylor, [he] plays like [Oscar] Peterson gone Classical, fast runs but Brubeck-Stravinsky-Prokofieff chords, a Juilliard classicist—He, like [James] Baldwin, [is] colored, [and] I think gay,—Baldwin is gay. I don’t dig all this gayness.
1954 October 26, Jack Kerouac, “Jack Kerouac [Richmond Hill, New York] to Allen Ginsberg [San Francisco, California] Oct. 26, ’54”, in Jack Kerouac and Allen Ginsberg: The Letters, Penguin, published 2010, →ISBN, page 247I doubt very much that their "gayness" had any deep sexual roots. I think it was simply an exotic form of juvenile delinquency.
1959 May, David McReynolds, “McReynolds Reply to [Seymour] Krim”, in Mattachine Review, volume V, number 5, Los Angeles: Mattachine Society, →ISSN, page 9Those of us who have been in heterosexual marriages too often have blamed our gayness on the breakup of the marriage.
1970, Carl Wittman, The Gay Manifesto, New York: The Red Butterfly, →OCLC, page 4, column 1Their goal was to compel open legal recognition of their beliefs about sex and gayness as being the law in the United States.
2015, E. Reltso, Our Sex Saturated SocietySynonyms: homosexuality, gay, faggotry
Synonyms & antonyms
nounThe state of being gay (cheerful); gaiety.
nounThe state of being gay (homosexual); homosexuality; demeanor stereotypically representative of it.
More synonyms by meaning
nouna sexual attraction to (or sexual relations with) persons of the same sex
Synonym sets from Open English WordNet, CC BY 4.0.
Origin
- Middle Englishgaynesse
- Englishgayness
From Middle English gaynesse, equivalent to gay + -ness.
More words from Middle English
Full word history & related roots →Translations
Dutch blijheid
- blijheidthe state of being cheerful
Finnish hilpeys, homous
- hilpeysthe state of being cheerful
- homoushomosexuality — see also homosexuality
- lesboushomosexuality — see also homosexuality
Swedish bögeri, lesbiskhet
- bögerihomosexuality — see also homosexuality
- lesbiskhethomosexuality — see also homosexuality
Welsh hoywdeb, hoywder
- hoywdebthe state of being cheerful
- hoywderthe state of being cheerful
- hoywderhomosexuality — see also homosexuality
Rhymes & wordplay
Rhymes with gayness
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