give someone the cold shoulder

verb

To snub, resist or reject somebody; to regard somebody distantly.

“I must have made him angry with my comment. He’s been giving me the cold shoulder ever since I said it.”

Meanings

verbgive someone the cold shoulder (third-person singular simple present gives someone the cold shoulder, present participle giving someone the cold shoulder, simple past gave someone the cold shoulder, past participle given someone the cold shoulder)

present singular third person gives someone the cold shoulder · participle present giving someone the cold shoulder · past gave someone the cold shoulder · participle past given someone the cold shoulder · alternative turn the cold shoulder on someone · alternative turn a cold shoulder on someone

  1. idiomaticTo snub, resist or reject somebody; to regard somebody distantly.

    I must have made him angry with my comment. He’s been giving me the cold shoulder ever since I said it.

    2 more examples

    The Pope had given him the cold shoulder, but since he had not prospered as a diplomatist, he had sought compensation as a man of the world, and his great flamboyant curricle and negro lackeys were for several weeks one of the striking ornaments of the Pincian.

    1875 January–December, Henry James, Jr., Roderick Hudson, Boston, Mass.: James R[ipley] Osgood and Company, late Ticknor & Fields, and Fields, Osgood, & Co., published 1876, →OCLC; republished as Roderick Hudson (EBook #176), U.S.A.: Project Gutenberg, 18 September 2016

    “What will they do to me?” “They will give you the cold shoulder. Do you know what that means?” Daisy was looking at him intently; she began to color.

    1879, Henry James, Daisy Miller, London: Harper & Brothers

Synonyms & antonyms

Origin

First recorded use of the expression was in 1816 by Sir Walter Scott in Scots (“The Countess’s dislike didna gang farther at first than just showing o’ the cauld shouther”.)

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Translations

Chinese Mandarin 不理不睬, 冷落
  • 不理不睬 (bùlǐbùcǎi)snub
  • 冷落 (lěngluò)snub
  • 冷淡 (lěngdàn)snub
Dutch iemand links laten liggen
  • iemand links laten liggensnub
Finnish olla ynseä jotakin kohtaan, kohdella jotakin ynseästi
  • olla ynseä jotakin kohtaansnub
  • kohdella jotakin ynseästisnub
  • kohdella jotakuta kylmäkiskoisestisnub
  • kohdella jotakuta yliolkaisestisnub
French être en froid avec quelqu'un, battre froid à quelqu'un
  • être en froid avec quelqu'unsnub
  • battre froid à quelqu'unsnub
German die kalte Schulter zeigen
  • die kalte Schulter zeigensnub
Japanese 白い目で見る
  • 白い目で見る (shiroi me de miru)snub
Polish traktować jak powietrze, potraktować jak powietrze
  • traktować jak powietrzesnub
  • potraktować jak powietrzesnub
Russian оказа́ть холо́дный приём
  • оказа́ть холо́дный приём (okazátʹ xolódnyj prijóm)snub
Spanish dar la espalda, hacer el vacío
  • dar la espaldasnub
  • hacer el vacíosnub
Ukrainian д́ати гарбуза́
  • д́ати гарбуза́ (d́aty harbuzá)snub
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APA

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Chicago

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