have a word with oneself

verb

To consider one's attitudes or behavior with a view to reform.

“He thinks that everything revolves around him; he needs to have a word with himself.”

Meanings

verbhave a word with oneself (third-person singular simple present has a word with oneself, present participle having a word with oneself, simple past and past participle had a word with oneself)

present singular third person has a word with oneself · participle present having a word with oneself · participle past had a word with oneself · past had a word with oneself

  1. UKidiomaticinformalTo consider one's attitudes or behavior with a view to reform.

    He thinks that everything revolves around him; he needs to have a word with himself.

    Synonyms: give one's head a wobble

Synonyms & antonyms

verbTo consider one's attitudes or behavior with a view to reform.

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Chicago

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