kill with kindness

verb

To pacify somebody by remaining goodhearted.

Meanings

verbkill with kindness (third-person singular simple present kills with kindness, present participle killing with kindness, simple past and past participle killed with kindness)

present singular third person kills with kindness · participle present killing with kindness · participle past killed with kindness · past killed with kindness

  1. transitiveTo pacify somebody by remaining goodhearted.

    After all these years of experience I know that some customers just act bad. You know, like bratty kids. I try to kill them with kindness, I yes them to death. Sometimes it will work and they will give me respect. Other times it doesn't.

    2002, Mary Lizabeth Gatta, Juggling Food and Feelings: Emotional Balance in the Workplace, Lexington Books, →ISBN, page 64
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