pillow queen

noun

A woman who only wants to receive sexual gratification during sex.

Meanings

nounpillow queen (plural pillow queens)

plural pillow queens

  1. slangA woman who only wants to receive sexual gratification during sex.

    "I am not a pillow queen, Marian. I don't think you want me to be, either."

    2003 September 1, Karin Kallmaker, One Degree of Separation, Bella Books, →ISBN, →OCLC
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    I'm probably exaggerating, but Leo gals are positioned to be the quintessential pillow queens who expect to be serviced first. And if she's not in the mood, neither are you, babe.

    2010 July 13, Charlene Lichtenstein, HerScopes: A Guide to Astrology for Lesbians, Simon and Schuster, →ISBN
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