play the man and not the ball

present singular third person plays the man and not the ball · participle present playing the man and not the ball · participle past played the man and not the ball · past played the man and not the ball · alternative play the man · alternative play the man, not the ball · alternative play the man not the ball

1. hobbiesTo attack an opponent instead of attacking the ball, which is usually being controlled by the attacked player at the time.
2. broadlycolloquialidiomaticTo object to someone's argument by attacking them or a facet of their personality instead of the argument itself; to make an ad hominem attack.

   ""What we are seeing is an orchestrated campaign from the Labor Party to try to play the man and not the ball," he said... "[And] this is the kind of personal attack that we are going to see from the Labor Party right up until polling day.""

   2010 April 1, “Abbott denies trying to soften his image”, in The Sydney Morning Herald, retrieved 27 Aug 2018

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   "“Claims that the words meant anything other than the “ultimate solution” to any political question is always a popular vote are simply ridiculous,” Anning said... “As I called for a plebiscite on the immigration mix, this baseless and ridiculous criticism is simply an effort to play the man and not the ball”."

   2018 August 14, Katharine Murphy, Amy Remeikis, “Australian senator calls for 'final solution to immigration problem'”, in The Guardian, retrieved 27 Aug 2018