rub it in

verb

To add insult to injury; to emphasize one's strengths or another's weaknesses in a manner that degrades another.

“Not to rub it in, but I'm working from home. So I took a swim this morning and have been thoroughly enjoying the beautiful weather.”

Meanings

verbrub it in (third-person singular simple present rubs it in, present participle rubbing it in, simple past and past participle rubbed it in)

present singular third person rubs it in · participle present rubbing it in · participle past rubbed it in · past rubbed it in

  1. idiomaticinformalTo add insult to injury; to emphasize one's strengths or another's weaknesses in a manner that degrades another.

    Not to rub it in, but I'm working from home. So I took a swim this morning and have been thoroughly enjoying the beautiful weather.

  2. idiomaticinformalTo labour the point.

    "Of course it wasn't worth while rubbing it in before young Hollyer, but, as a matter of fact, every single man carries the life of any other man—only one, mind you—in his hands, do what you will."

    1914, Ernest Bramah [pseudonym; Ernest Brammah Smith], Max Carrados

Synonyms & antonyms

Translations

Czech rozmazávat to
  • rozmazávat toadd insult to injury
French retourner le fer dans la plaie, en rajouter
  • retourner le fer dans la plaieadd insult to injury
  • en rajouteradd insult to injury
Hebrew זרה מלח על פצעיו
  • זרה מלח על פצעיוadd insult to injury
Hungarian orra alá dörgöl, felemleget
  • orra alá dörgöladd insult to injury
  • felemlegetadd insult to injury
  • sulykoladd insult to injury
Polish dolewać oliwy do ognia, dolać oliwy do ognia
  • dolewać oliwy do ogniaadd insult to injury
  • dolać oliwy do ogniaadd insult to injury
Portuguese jogar na cara
  • jogar na caraadd insult to injury
Romanian a răsuci cuțitul în rană
  • a răsuci cuțitul în ranăadd insult to injury
Russian сы́пать соль на ра́ну
  • сы́пать соль на ра́ну (sýpatʹ solʹ na ránu)add insult to injury
Spanish refregar, restregar
  • refregaradd insult to injury
  • restregaradd insult to injury
  • refrotaradd insult to injury
Cite this entry
APA

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MLA

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Chicago

WatkinsX Dictionary, s.v. “rub it in,” accessed November 4, 2026, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/rub%20it%20in.

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