Meanings
alternative save the drama for your momma
- slangRefrain from inciting drama (rumor, lying, or an exaggerated reaction to life events).
They are gonna get all the play / But when it comes to me, save the drama for your momma
1992, Lawrence A. Stanley (editor), Rap, The Lyrics, page 1624 more examples
asks you for ID and the best you can do is your library card, save the drama for your mama and leave quietly.
1999, Gabe Fied, Inside New York, page 279This corny thing I saw on TV just kind of came to me, so I'm all, "Save the drama for your mama."
2002, Dana Johnson, Break Any Woman Down And Other Stories, page 92I'm just telling you the criminal court version. You can just save the drama for your mama. Because I don't want to hear it.
2005, Nane Quartay, The Badness, page 207Save the drama for your mama. In fact, spare your mama, too. Nobody likes drama. If you see something going down—tongues wagging, people complaining, plots hatching—stay out of it.
2010, Erin Bried, How to Build a Fire And Other Handy Things Your Grandfather Knew, page 92 - slangSynonym of suck it up (with the implication that one's mother is not present to care about one's feelings).
Synonyms: suck it up
Synonyms & antonyms
phraseSynonym of suck it up (with the implication that one's mother is not present to care about one's feelings).
Origin
Chosen for the rhyme. First use appears c. 1992. See cite below.
Full word history & related roots →Cite this entry
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