set one's cap at

verb

To choose a man as a potential husband (for a girl).

“Patrick O'Brian, "HMS Surprise". How he has escaped marriage until now I cannot tell: the number of caps set in his direction would furnish a warehouse.”

Meanings

verbset one's cap at (third-person singular simple present sets one's cap at, present participle setting one's cap at, simple past and past participle set one's cap at)

present singular third person sets one's cap at · participle present setting one's cap at · alternative set one's cap for

  1. idiomaticTo choose a man as a potential husband (for a girl).

    To hear her rant, one would have supposed, who had not seen him, that her lank-haired, grimly partner, was the prettiest youth in the county of Dublin, and that all the comely lasses in Chapelizod and the country round were sighing and setting caps at him […]

    1863, Sheridan Le Fanu, The House by the Churchyard
  2. broadlyidiomaticTo choose something as a goal.

    Patrick O'Brian, "HMS Surprise". How he has escaped marriage until now I cannot tell: the number of caps set in his direction would furnish a warehouse.

Origin

  1. Frenchmettre le cap sur“to set a course for”
  2. Englishset one's cap at

Probably a calque of French mettre le cap sur (“to set a course for”).

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Translations

Polish wybierać kandydata na męża, wybrać kandydata na męża
  • wybierać kandydata na mężato choose a man as a potential husband for a girl
  • wybrać kandydata na mężato choose a man as a potential husband for a girl
  • obierać za celto choose something as a goal
  • obrać za celto choose something as a goal
Russian положить глаз pf на кого-либо, положить глаз pf на кого-либо
  • положить глаз pf на кого-либо (položitʹ glaz)to choose a man as a potential husband for a girl
  • положить глаз pf на кого-либо (položitʹ glaz)to choose something as a goal
  • нв что-либоto choose something as a goal
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Chicago

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