that's the way the cookie crumbles

proverb

That is the way things happen; that's life.

Similar
that's the way the ball bouncesthat's the way the mop flopsthem's the breaks
First used 1955
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proverb

alternative that's how the cookie crumbles

  1. That is the way things happen; that's life.First known use 1955
    1 more example

    Are you up to par with the hep talk that is going around schools like Norwood High? […] While standing by the H2o spurt (water fountain) we overheard the following conversation between two really gone (neat) guys. “[…] It was a blind date, and boy did I flip (go mad) when I got a gaze at her! That dirty bird (guy that pulls a dirty trick) that fixed me up with her! I spent a whole chlorophyl George (one dollar bill) on her. Oh well, that’s the way the cookie crumbles (that’s life!)[…]” (Taken from N. H. S. Mirror)

    1955 February 2, “Dig This Man-⁠-The Craziest!”, in The Cincinnati Post, volume 74, number 16, Cincinnati, Oh., page 19

    Synonyms: that's the way the ball bounces, that's the way the mop flops, them's the breaks

Synonyms & antonyms

proverbThat is the way things happen; that's life.

Similar
that's the way the ball bouncesthat's the way the mop flopsthem's the breaks
Also see
c'est la vielife's a bitchshit happensso be itso it goessuch is lifethat's the way the ball bouncesthat's the way the mop flopsthem's the breaks
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Chicago

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