you get more with a kind word and a gun than you do with a kind word alone

proverb

It is advantageous not to rely solely on being nice to others.

Meanings

proverb
  1. It is advantageous not to rely solely on being nice to others.

Origin

Attributed to 20th-century American mobster Al Capone.

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APA

you get more with a kind word and a gun than you do with a kind word alone. (n.d.). In WatkinsX Dictionary. Retrieved November 5, 2026, from https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/you%20get%20more%20with%20a%20kind%20word%20and%20a%20gun%20than%20you%20do%20with%20a%20kind%20word%20alone

MLA

“you get more with a kind word and a gun than you do with a kind word alone.” WatkinsX Dictionary, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/you%20get%20more%20with%20a%20kind%20word%20and%20a%20gun%20than%20you%20do%20with%20a%20kind%20word%20alone. Accessed November 5, 2026.

Chicago

WatkinsX Dictionary, s.v. “you get more with a kind word and a gun than you do with a kind word alone,” accessed November 5, 2026, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/you%20get%20more%20with%20a%20kind%20word%20and%20a%20gun%20than%20you%20do%20with%20a%20kind%20word%20alone.

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