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- Proto-Indo-European*né
- Proto-Indo-European*n̥-
- Proto-Italic*n̥-
- Latinin-
- Middle Englishin-
- Englishin-
- Middle Englishvoluntarie
- Englishvoluntary
- Englishinvoluntarysyl. abbr.
- Latincaeleb
- Englishcelibatesyl. abbr.
- English todayincel
Syllabic abbreviation of involuntary celibate. Coined by "Alana" in 1997 on an online forum (originally as invcel). Came to widespread usage in the mid-2010s, chiefly online, but now more widespread.
First known use, by meaning
- from 20th c. "Involuntary celibacy": the state of being not sexually active despite wishing to be.
- from 21st c. Someone (especially a man) who desires a sexual relationship but considers themselves unable to attract a partner; (often specifically), a member of an online subculture of people who identify in this way, often adopting resentful or misogynistic attitudes towards women as a result.
Etymology from Wiktionary, CC BY-SA 4.0.