AITA

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Initialism of am I the asshole/arsehole?.

UncommonScrabble 4

Meanings

phrase
  1. InternetabbreviationinitialismReddit slangInitialism of am I the asshole/arsehole?.

    A number of Am-I-The-Asshole scenarios raced through his mind. AITA if I tell her I have a highly contagious disease and she'd better check in to the Bounty Bay's ER right now?

    2020, Tracey Alvarez, Trust Your Heart
    1 more example

    A few weeks ago, a post went viral in which the author seeks a public verdict on the question “AITA for asking my roommates to remove their dildos from the bathroom mirror in a way that was not kind?”

    2023 May 13, Van Badham, “The culture of mistrust is bleeding into our personal lives. No wonder there’s a sex recession”, in The Guardian, →ISSN

Origin

From r/AmITheAsshole, a community on Reddit where users ask for feedback on whether they behaved inappropriately in interpersonal conflicts.

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Cite this entry
APA

AITA. (n.d.). In WatkinsX Dictionary. Retrieved November 3, 2026, from https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/AITA

MLA

“AITA.” WatkinsX Dictionary, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/AITA. Accessed November 3, 2026.

Chicago

WatkinsX Dictionary, s.v. “AITA,” accessed November 3, 2026, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/AITA.

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