platonic love

noun

Intimate but non-sexual and non-romantic affection.

Meanings

platonic love1

nounplatonic love (countable and uncountable, plural platonic loves)

plural platonic loves · alternative Platonic love

  1. countableuncountableIntimate but non-sexual and non-romantic affection.

Platonic love2

nounPlatonic love (countable and uncountable, plural Platonic loves)

plural Platonic loves

  1. countableuncountableAlternative letter-case form of platonic love.

    The practice of Platonic love, of which he had formed ſo fine an idea in ſpeculation, appeared to him but a chimera in reality.

    1773 April 12, “The Force of Honour”, in The Western Flying Post; or Sherborne and Yeovil Mercury and General Advertiser, volume XXV, number 2190, Sherborne, Dorset: […] R[obert] Goadby, […], →OCLC, appendix (volume II), page 58, column 1
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    Ye ſanctified and holy, / Who methodiſtically prove / The force of true-⁠-⁠-Platonic love, / Indulge for once with Scholey.

    1775 February 18, “To the Printers of the Cambridge Chronicle”, in The Cambridge Chronicle and Journal, volume XIII, number 643, Cambridge, Cambridgeshire: […] T. Fletcher and F. Hodson, […], →OCLC, page [2], column 4

    One heart, but in two bodies join’d, / By ancient writers is defin’d, / A friend in truth to prove; / To me ſhe’s preſent when away, / My tender thoughts with Delia ſtay; / Is this Platonic love?

    1789 March 26, “Poet’s Corner. The Difference between Love and Friendship.”, in The State Gazette of North-Carolina, volume IV, number 168, Edenton, N.C.: […] Hodge & Wills, […], →OCLC, page [4], column 1

    Homosexual appetites, tastes, and fantasies, one is reminded while listening to Elliot, appear to be every bit as various as heterosexual ones, with the range of homosex—running from an almost Platonic love to sadistic lust—being no less wide than that of heterosex.

    1970 September, Joseph Epstein, “Homo/Hetero: The Struggle for Sexual Identity”, in Harper’s Magazine, New York, N.Y., →ISSN, →OCLC

    I didn’t know I loved the earth / can someone who hasn’t worked the earth love it / I’ve never worked the earth / it must be my only Platonic love

    1975 [1962], Nazim Hikmet, translated by Randy Blasing and Mutlu Konuk, “Things I Didn’t Know I Loved”, in Things I Didn’t Know I Loved: Selected Poems of Nazim Hikmet, New York, N.Y.: Persea Books, →ISBN, page 80

    Passion, providence, and imitation are conventionally the respective ruling forces of these three processes. Yet to take them at face value, as an innocent reading of the poem might advise, would be to betray Garcilaso’s own efforts, in this sonnet and elsewhere, to expose the arbitrariness of grandiose idealist concepts such as Platonic love and providential history.

    1998 spring, José María Rodríguez García, “Epos delendum est: The Subject of Carthage in Garcilaso’s ‘A Boscán desde “La Goleta”’”, in Hispanic Review, volume 66, number 2, Philadelphia, Pa.: University of Pennsylvania Press, →DOI, →ISSN, →OCLC, page 166

Origin

Attested 1636 in Platonic Lovers by William Davenant. Earlier coined in Latin in the 15th century as amor platōnicus by Florentine scholar Marsilio Ficino (originally in 1476 letter to Alamanno Donati, later expounded in De amore (1484)), based on his interpretation of the Symposium by Plato, specifically the speech by Socrates, relating the thoughts of Diotima of Mantinea.

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Translations

Catalan amor platònic
  • amor platònicintimate but non-sexual affection
Chinese Mandarin 柏拉圖式戀愛 /柏拉图式恋爱, 柏拉圖式愛情 /柏拉图式爱情
  • 柏拉圖式戀愛 /柏拉图式恋爱 (Bólātú-shì liàn'ài)intimate but non-sexual affection
  • 柏拉圖式愛情 /柏拉图式爱情 (Bólātú-shì àiqíng)intimate but non-sexual affection
  • 柏拉圖之愛 /柏拉图之爱 (Bólātú zhī ài)intimate but non-sexual affection
Czech platonická láska
  • platonická láskaintimate but non-sexual affection
Danish platonisk kærlighed
  • platonisk kærlighedintimate but non-sexual affection
Dutch platonische liefde
  • platonische liefdeintimate but non-sexual affection
Estonian platooniline armastus
  • platooniline armastusintimate but non-sexual affection
Finnish platoninen rakkaus
  • platoninen rakkausintimate but non-sexual affection
French amour platonique
  • amour platoniqueintimate but non-sexual affection
German platonische Liebe
  • platonische Liebeintimate but non-sexual affection
Greek πλατωνικός έρωτας
  • πλατωνικός έρωτας (platonikós érotas)intimate but non-sexual affection
Hebrew אַהֲבָה אַפְּלָטוֹנִית
  • אַהֲבָה אַפְּלָטוֹנִית (ahavá aplatónit)intimate but non-sexual affection
Hungarian plátói szerelem
  • plátói szerelemintimate but non-sexual affection
Italian amore platonico
  • amore platonicointimate but non-sexual affection
Japanese プラトニック・ラブ
  • プラトニック・ラブ (puratonikku-rabu)intimate but non-sexual affection
Korean 플라토닉 러브
  • 플라토닉 러브 (peullatonik reobeu)intimate but non-sexual affection
Polish miłość platoniczna
  • miłość platonicznaintimate but non-sexual affection
Portuguese amor platónico/platônico
  • amor platónico/platônicointimate but non-sexual affection
Romanian dragoste platonică
  • dragoste platonicăintimate but non-sexual affection
Russian платони́ческая любо́вь
  • платони́ческая любо́вь (platoníčeskaja ljubóvʹ)intimate but non-sexual affection
Slovak platonická láska
  • platonická láskaintimate but non-sexual affection
Spanish amor platónico
  • amor platónicointimate but non-sexual affection
Swedish platonisk kärlek
  • platonisk kärlekintimate but non-sexual affection
Turkish platonik aşk
  • platonik aşkintimate but non-sexual affection
Ukrainian платоні́чне коха́ння, платоні́чна любо́в
  • платоні́чне коха́ння (platoníčne koxánnja)intimate but non-sexual affection
  • платоні́чна любо́в (platoníčna ljubóv)intimate but non-sexual affection
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