beside oneself

prepositional phrase

Overcome; consumed by an emotion.

“His widow was beside herself with grief.”

Meanings

prepositional phrase

alternative Early Modern besides oneself

  1. idiomaticOvercome; consumed by an emotion.

    His widow was beside herself with grief.

    1 more example

    [...] he contemplated it most calmly. Comparatively, all other men, North and South, were beside themselves.

    1860, Henry David Thoreau, The Last Days of John Brown

Origin

  1. Ancient Greekπαράνοια“madness”
  2. Englishbeside oneself

Possibly derived from Ancient Greek παράνοια (paránoia, “madness”), from παράνοος (paránoos, “demented”), from παρά (pará, “beyond, beside”) + νόος (nóos, “mind, spirit”), with "beside mind" evolving into "beside oneself".

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Translations

Chinese Mandarin 異常激動 /异常激动
  • 異常激動 /异常激动 (yìcháng jīdòng)consumed by an emotion
Czech být bez sebe
  • být bez sebeconsumed by an emotion
Danish ude af sig selv
  • ude af sig selvconsumed by an emotion
Esperanto ekstaza, krom si mem
  • ekstazaconsumed by an emotion
  • krom si memconsumed by an emotion
Finnish poissa tolaltaan
  • poissa tolaltaanconsumed by an emotion
French dépassé, ne plus se sentir
  • dépasséconsumed by an emotion
  • ne plus se sentirconsumed by an emotion
German außer sich
  • außer sichconsumed by an emotion
Hungarian magánkívül van, odavan
  • magánkívül vanconsumed by an emotion
  • odavanconsumed by an emotion
  • nagyonconsumed by an emotion
Icelandic ekki með sjálfum sér
  • ekki með sjálfum sérconsumed by an emotion
Italian fuori di sè
  • fuori di sèconsumed by an emotion
Polish z siebie
  • z siebieconsumed by an emotion
Portuguese fora de si
  • fora de siconsumed by an emotion
Russian вне себя́
  • вне себя́ (vne sebjá)consumed by an emotion
Spanish fuera de sí
  • fuera de síconsumed by an emotion
Swedish utom sig
  • utom sigconsumed by an emotion
Yiddish אויסער זיך
  • אויסער זיך (oyser zikh)consumed by an emotion
Cite this entry
APA

beside oneself. (n.d.). In WatkinsX Dictionary. Retrieved November 4, 2026, from https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/beside%20oneself

MLA

“beside oneself.” WatkinsX Dictionary, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/beside%20oneself. Accessed November 4, 2026.

Chicago

WatkinsX Dictionary, s.v. “beside oneself,” accessed November 4, 2026, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/beside%20oneself.

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