between you, me, and the bedpost

prepositional phrase

between you and me

Meanings

prepositional phrase

alternative between you and me and the bedpost · alternative between you, me and the bedpost · alternative between you, me, and the fencepost · alternative between you, me, and the gatepost · alternative between you, me, and the lamppost · alternative between you, me, and the post

  1. idiomaticbetween you and me

    Between you and me and the bed-post – young master’s quarrelled with old master.

    1832, Edward Bulwer-Lytton, Eugene Aram

Synonyms & antonyms

Origin

Humorous emphatic form of between you and me, by anthropomorphizing an (ostensibly mute) bedpost. Compare dumb as a post.

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Translations

Scottish Gaelic eadar dà sgeul is dà chluas a' chlobha, eadar dhà sgeulachd agus beul a' chlobha
  • eadar dà sgeul is dà chluas a' chlobhahumorously emphatic expression of "in confidence"
  • eadar dhà sgeulachd agus beul a' chlobhahumorously emphatic expression of "in confidence"
  • is ann ris na cnuic a tha mi ga ràdhhumorously emphatic expression of "in confidence"
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