comptop

plural comptops

1. uncountableThe situation where a person (especially a trans woman) feels obligated to top (“penetrate”) a sexual partner.

   cis lesbians have comphet, egg trans lesbians have comptop

   2022 September 22, @mothmoder, Twitter (post), archived from the original on 18 Dec 2025

   3 more examples

   Hole hits so much better when she's a victim of comptop 😩

   2023 December 23, @gally420, X (post), archived from the original on 18 Dec 2025

   Comptop (topping because you feel obligated to, not because you want to) ¶ Oop is describing meeting a hypothetical trans girl suffering from comptop and trying to fight what estrogen is doing to her junk in order to perform topping obligations even though she clearly doesn't want to.[…

   2025 May 25, u/Havatchee, r/196 (Reddit post), archived from the original on 18 Dec 2025

   No, I’m disagreeing that trans women topping is explicitly a male sex role when it comes to two women having sex, as you said here. Comptop as a part of wider misgendering in a relationship is not the same as saying trans women who like to top are playing a “male sex role”.

   2025 May 25, @TaliahJune, X (post), archived from the original on 18 Dec 2025

2. countableA person who tops in this manner; someone who is forced to be a service top.

   i have the problem of mostly only having sex with girls who are used to comptopping so i top them cause i want them to be able to feel nice but then that turns into me being a comptop the majority of time i have sex and i kind of want to pass away

   2025 July 25, @pepperbpaws, X (post), archived from the original on 18 Dec 2025

present singular third person comptops · participle present comptopping · participle past comptopped · past comptopped

1. intransitiveTo top out of compulsion.

   i think switches who aren’t just bottoms who will comptop (if that makes sense) are the best

   2025 September 21, @emdocrinemoder, X (post), archived from the original on 18 Dec 2025