feel out

verb

To attempt to ascertain a person's point of view, or the nature of a situation, by cautious and subtle means.

“I think we should feel out your mom's thoughts about this before we decide anything.”

Meanings

verbfeel out (third-person singular simple present feels out, present participle feeling out, simple past and past participle felt out)

present singular third person feels out · participle present feeling out · participle past felt out · past felt out

  1. idiomaticTo attempt to ascertain a person's point of view, or the nature of a situation, by cautious and subtle means.

    I think we should feel out your mom's thoughts about this before we decide anything.

    1 more example

    I feel out strangers that come in to make sure they know they're in a gay place and won't cause any trouble.

    1976 February 7, Rose Flower, quoting Jimmy McGrath, “Playland: The Friendliest Place In Town”, in Gay Community News, volume 3, number 32, page 13

    Synonyms: sound out, check out

Synonyms & antonyms

verbTo attempt to ascertain a person's point of view, or the nature of a situation, by cautious and subtle means.

More synonyms by meaning

verbtry to learn someone's opinions and intentions

Synonym sets from Open English WordNet, CC BY 4.0.

Translations

Icelandic fara á fjörurnar við, leita hófanna hjá
  • fara á fjörurnar viðto try to ascertain a point of view or the nature of something
  • leita hófanna hjáto try to ascertain a point of view or the nature of something
Spanish tantear, semblantear
  • tantearto try to ascertain a point of view or the nature of something
  • semblantearto try to ascertain a point of view or the nature of something
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APA

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MLA

“feel out.” WatkinsX Dictionary, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/feel%20out. Accessed November 4, 2026.

Chicago

WatkinsX Dictionary, s.v. “feel out,” accessed November 4, 2026, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/feel%20out.

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