grass widower

noun

A married man whose spouse is away.

Similar
divorced man
First used 19th c.

Meanings

noungrass widower (plural grass widowers)

plural grass widowers

  1. A married man whose spouse is away.First known use 19th c.

    “I shall be a gay grass widower for the next two months—wife’s gone for a holiday to the West Indies.”

    1914 February 25, A.T. Smith, Punch, page 146
    2 more examples

    "I wonder if there is a single person in the Stewartry that Campbell didn't have a row with," thought Wimsey, and made an addition to his list:— 6. John Ferguson—about 36—about 5 foot 10 inches—grass widower.

    1931, Dorothy L. Sayers, The Five Red Herrings

    She was generous with her offers to introduce Edith to various grass-widowers of her acquaintance – ‘my cast-offs’, as she laughingly referred to them […].

    1984, Anita Brookner, Hotel du Lac, Penguin, published 2016, page 57

Synonyms & antonyms

nouna man who is divorced from (or separated from) his wife

Similar
divorced man
Broader
manadult male

Synonym sets from Open English WordNet, CC BY 4.0.

Origin

Translations

Danish græsenkemand
  • græsenkemanda married man whose wife is away
Finnish kesäleski
  • kesäleskia married man whose wife is away
German Strohwitwer
  • Strohwitwera married man whose wife is away
Hungarian szalmaözvegy
  • szalmaözvegya married man whose wife is away
Norwegian Bokmål gressenkemann
  • gressenkemanna married man whose wife is away
Polish słomiany wdowiec
  • słomiany wdowieca married man whose wife is away
Swedish gräsänkling, gräsänkeman
  • gräsänklinga married man whose wife is away
  • gräsänkemana married man whose wife is away
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Chicago

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