Meanings
alternative gray-sexual · alternative UK greysexual · alternative UK grey-sexual
- neologismnot comparableIntermediate between sexual and asexual; sometimes, but not usually, experiencing sexual attraction and desire.
Some aces are gray-sexual (or gray-A), meaning that they fall somewhere on a spectrum between asexual and sexual.
2014 February 19, Tess Banta, “The 'A' Stands for Asexual”, in The Amherst Student, volume 143, number 16, Amherst College, page 72 more examples
But then I remember: the whole ethos of sex-positivity is predicated on a belief that everyone—sexual, asexual, or gray-sexual; monogamous, polyamorous, or something in-between; LGBTQ or as hetero as the Romneys—is entitled to pleasurable and safe sex.
2013, M. M, "sex-pos", Post- (Brown University), Volume 14, Issue 13, 21 February 2013, page 7Do you feel sexual attraction sometimes, but only rarely? You may be graysexual,* and you’ll have a lot in common with asexual people if you are.
2014 June 18, Julie Sondra Decker, “How to Tell If You Are Asexual”, in TimeSynonyms: gray-A, gray asexual, gray ace
plural graysexuals · alternative gray-sexual · alternative UK greysexual · alternative UK grey-sexual
- neologismA graysexual person.
Synonyms & antonyms
adjectiveIntermediate between sexual and asexual; sometimes, but not usually, experiencing sexual attraction and desire.
Origin
Blend of gray + asexual, coined by user asexualityrocks in 2008 on the forums of the Asexual Visibility and Education Network about two years after the advent of gray-A and gray asexual.
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Cite this entry
graysexual. (n.d.). In WatkinsX Dictionary. Retrieved November 3, 2026, from https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/graysexual
“graysexual.” WatkinsX Dictionary, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/graysexual. Accessed November 3, 2026.
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