hold over someone's head

verb

To harp on; to remind continuously (especially of a misstep or defeat).

“I get one parking ticket and he holds it over my head for six months.”

Meanings

verbhold over someone's head (third-person singular simple present holds over someone's head, present participle holding over someone's head, simple past and past participle held over someone's head)

present singular third person holds over someone's head · participle present holding over someone's head · participle past held over someone's head · past held over someone's head

  1. idiomatictransitiveTo harp on; to remind continuously (especially of a misstep or defeat).

    I get one parking ticket and he holds it over my head for six months.

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