keep it in the family

verb

To restrict knowledge or information to only the members of a family or another small, intimate group.

“Near-synonyms: keep one's own counsel, keep one's mouth shut, STFU; see also Thesaurus:be quiet”

Meanings

verbkeep it in the family (third-person singular simple present keeps it in the family, present participle keeping it in the family, simple past and past participle kept it in the family)

present singular third person keeps it in the family · participle present keeping it in the family · participle past kept it in the family · past kept it in the family

  1. idiomaticTo restrict knowledge or information to only the members of a family or another small, intimate group.

    Near-synonyms: keep one's own counsel, keep one's mouth shut, STFU; see also Thesaurus:be quiet

    Synonyms: keep one's own counsel, keep one's mouth shut, STFU · Antonyms: air one's dirty laundry in public

  2. idiomaticTo remain loyal to one's family; to retain family ownership of a business for long period of time.

Synonyms & antonyms

verbTo restrict knowledge or information to only the members of a family or another small, intimate group.

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Chicago

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