pussy bandit

plural pussy bandits

1. slangvulgarA player; A man who seduces many women, especially if the sexual liaisons are considered illicit because he or she is committed to another relationship.

   He smiled at this proudly, like he was the campus pussy-bandit being lauded for his prowess by his unlaid friends.

   2012, Norah Vincent, Thy Neighbor: A Novel, →ISBN

   2 more examples

   Though sexual myths project the image of the black male "pussy bandit," the "player" as the erotic hero leading this life of endless pleasure, behind the mask is the reality of suffering.

   2004, Bell Hooks, We Real Cool: Black Men and Masculinity, →ISBN, page 73

   A world-class pussy bandit, Micah had experienced marriage as a seven-year montage of chorus singers and starlets, secretaries and schoolteachers, cigarette girls and cocktail waitresses, all of them happily hopping into his lap, a pinwheeling collage of legs waving from taxicab windows, lewd acts performed in commissary bathrooms and the back of darkened screening rooms, the entire apparatus of moviemaking at times seeming less about money and craftsmanship than a riot of unrestrained coupling.

   2014, Andrew Lewis Conn, O, Africa!: A Novel, →ISBN