surreality

plural surrealities

1. countableuncountableThe state of being incongruous or surreal.

   The surreality of the crash scene dawned upon him only when he saw a holy figure in the smoke.

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   And when he goes to greet his mother the surreality of it all stares him in the face: in two years she's turned into a little old lady.

   2008, Preeta Samarasan, Evening is the Whole Day, Fourth Estate, page 227

2. countableuncountableThat which is surreal; a surreal entity, event or other fact.

   The surrealities of life are the paradoxes thereof.