touchy-feely

comparative more touchy-feely · superlative most touchy-feely

1. informalHaving a fondness for physical contact with other people, especially to an excessive degree.

   My last boyfriend was a lovely guy, but I dumped him because he was too touchy-feely with me in public.

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   Kühnel’s wife, Berta, began by asking everyone to join hands. […] When I asked her later what she made of the exercise, Hellar told me: “First of all, I’m not a good-feelings, touchy-feely kind of person.”

   2009 April 16, Jon Mooallem, quoting Gretchen Hellar, “The End Is Near! (Yay!)”, in The New York Times, →ISSN

   This time, the actor was in uncomfortably touchy-feely form. First he sidled up behind Scarlett Johansson as she posed on the red carpet, kissed her, and slid his hand around her waist.

   2015 February 23, “Oscars 2015: 10 things we learned”, in The Guardian (London)

2. derogatoryidiomaticusuallyDriven by intuition or emotion, with a connotation of de-emphasis of rational thought or logic.

   He preferred the clarity of science and left the touchy-feely stuff to others.

3. derogatoryidiomaticusuallyAppealing to emotion, sympathy, or romance.

   I think the movie had too much touchy-feely nonsense and not enough action.

1. uncountablePhysical contact, typically sexual, and usually inappropriate or unwanted.

   Why is it that, when straight men are touched, it is an affront worthy of outrage and police investigation, yet a woman's being the subject of a bar-wide game of touchy-feely is par for the course?

   Kyle Hoffman, letter in Valley Advocate, quoted 1979 February 10 by Allen Young, “Living In The Country”, in Gay Community News, volume 6, number 28, page 8

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   When I was wrestling, females were just appearing on the scene. I loved my coach's position. "If they want to wrestle with the boys, sure, I will put our wrestlers on the mat for some touchy feely. (Paraphrased, but not by much)

   2025 February 13, @ZekeCares, Twitter