try it on

present singular third person tries it on · participle present trying it on · participle past tried it on · past tried it on

1. colloquialidiomaticTo test someone to see how much bad behaviour they will tolerate; to try to deceive someone to see how gullible they are.

   “We must not submit,” said Mr. Eager. “I knew he was trying it on. He is treating us as if we were a party of Cook’s tourists.”

   1908, E. M. Forster, A Room with a View, London: Edward Arnold, Part 1, Chapter 6, p. 95

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   “Come, come,” said James, putting his hand to his nose and winking at his cousin with a pair of vinous eyes, “no jokes, old boy; no trying it on on me. You want to trot me out, but it’s no go. In vino veritas, old boy […]”

   1847 January – 1848 July, William Makepeace Thackeray, Vanity Fair […], London: Bradbury and Evans […], published 1848, →OCLC

   The Arabs hate the French more than they hate us. Having more reason to do so, they are more polite; in other words, they have learnt not to try it on, when they meet a European.

   1937, Robert Byron, The Road to Oxiana, London: Macmillan, Part 1, p. 35

   “I’m warning you. I’m going to get angry. D’you see? You’re not wanted. Understand? We are going to have fun on this island. Understand? We are going to have fun on this island! So don’t try it on, my poor misguided boy, or else—”

   1954, William Golding, Lord of the Flies

2. colloquialidiomaticTo try to start a sexual relationship (with someone).

   No, this was only a young man trying it on with a girl, in that light, undergraduate way in which this kind could snap back.

   1969, Hortense Calisher, chapter 11, in The New Yorkers, Boston: Little, Brown, page 319

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   “[…] Tell her I’ll be outside the house from eleven o’clock onwards. Tell her to leave the morning-room window open and to switch on the light in her bedroom when it’s safe for me to come in.” “She won’t believe me if I go and tell her that,” I said. “No girl would. She’d think I was trying it on.”

   1926, Nevil Shute, chapter 1, in Marazan, London: Cassell