Dutch wife

UK, US/ˌdʌtʃ ˈwaɪf/

noun

A long body-length bolster (pillow) that can be held or wrapped around one's body while sleeping.

Meanings

nounDutch wife (plural Dutch wives)

plural Dutch wives

  1. A long body-length bolster (pillow) that can be held or wrapped around one's body while sleeping.

    His eyes wide with surprise and fear, he clutched tightly the bolster — sweat- absorbing bedfellow of sleepers in the East — known as a Dutch wife. [...] "What do you mean? Who are you?" Maniam's great eyes, his black skin oiled with sweat, Maniam's hands pudgily clutching his Dutch wife.

    1959, Anthony Burgess, Beds in the East (The Malayan Trilogy), published 1972, page 490

    Synonyms: body pillow, dakimakura, love pillow

  2. In East Asia and Southeast Asia, a wicker or bamboo tube the size of a person for use in the bed. In the summer heat, the open bamboo structure is cooler than fabric pillows or sheets. The Dutch wife is embraced by the user, exposing the maximum amount of the body to cooling breezes.

    Synonyms: bamboo wife, bolster

Synonyms & antonyms

nounA long body-length bolster (pillow) that can be held or wrapped around one's body while sleeping.

nounIn East Asia and Southeast Asia, a wicker or bamboo tube the size of a person for use in the bed. In the summer heat, the open bamboo structure is cooler than fabric pillows or sheets. The Dutch wife is embraced by the user, exposing the maximum amount of the body to cooling breezes.

Origin

Compound of Dutch (“inferior substitute”) + wife.

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Translations

Chinese Mandarin 竹夫人
  • 竹夫人 (zhúfūrén)bamboo tube for use in bed
Japanese 竹夫人
  • 竹夫人 (chikufujin)bamboo tube for use in bed
Korean 죽부인
  • 죽부인 (jukbu'in)bamboo tube for use in bed
Vietnamese trúc phu nhân
  • trúc phu nhânbamboo tube for use in bed

Rhymes & wordplay

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APA

Dutch wife. (n.d.). In WatkinsX Dictionary. Retrieved November 4, 2026, from https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/Dutch%20wife

MLA

“Dutch wife.” WatkinsX Dictionary, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/Dutch%20wife. Accessed November 4, 2026.

Chicago

WatkinsX Dictionary, s.v. “Dutch wife,” accessed November 4, 2026, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/Dutch%20wife.

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