my brother in Christ

noun

A (sometimes condescending) term of address, used before a statement which intends to dispel someone's lack of self-awareness.

“I know you're really hyped about the plan, but, my brother in Christ, it's not gonna work.”

Meanings

nounmy brother in Christ (plural my brothers in Christ)

plural my brothers in Christ

  1. InternetA (sometimes condescending) term of address, used before a statement which intends to dispel someone's lack of self-awareness.

    I know you're really hyped about the plan, but, my brother in Christ, it's not gonna work.

    1 more example

    Tech bros sometimes say they're against so-called social engineering; my brother in Christ, your technological innovations have been a chief wellspring of such reengineering.

  2. Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see my, brother in Christ.

    We all must labor in the vineyard and walk in the ways of the Lord; my brother in Christ, you won't find happiness at the bottom of a bottle.

    1 more example

    "But you admit," Brother Nathaniel rejoined, "that they attacked you because the devil moved you, to blaspheme our Saviour, to blaspheme by saying something I can scarcely repeat, that you are more than Peter and nothing less than He Himself, the Lord, the Christ, the Son of God. Tell me, is the report I heard correct?" "First, Nathaniel, my brother in Christ, you tell me, you who once baptised me with water, if I in return should baptise you with the Holy Ghost?" This utterly alarmed the poor lay-brother. "No!" he exclaimed. "Don't speak to me of baptism! Spare me your baptism! I have enough to repent, enough to do to wipe from the book of my sins that morning on which I in my blind trustfulness sprinkled you with water. I don't want your baptism." Nathaniel sprang up from his chair. Emanuel turned white to the very finger-tips of his long, nobly formed hand, and gazed into the open, his lips trembling. […] "Emanuel!" [Nathaniel] cried at last, no longer severe, but full of compassion. "Emanuel," he besought him, "turn from the way you are going if only for my sake, for me from whom God will demand your lost soul on the day of days. You spoke of the mystery of the kingdom. My hair is standing on end, Emanuel. Let us pray that God remove from you this spirit of mental darkness. The mystery of the kingdom is the Lord's."

    1912 [1911], Gerhart Hauptmann, translated by Thomas Seltzer, The Fool in Christ, Emanuel Quint: A Novel, New York: B.W. Huebsch, pages 219-220

Origin

From my + brother in Christ. The phrase was in use unironically for softening the delivery of a harsh truth and discouraging the shooting of the messenger before it ever was used sarcastically as an internet meme; it pursued those aims by emphasizing spiritual fraternity between speaker and listener (compare the theme of all due respect and you know I love you, but you need to hear the truth).

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APA

my brother in Christ. (n.d.). In WatkinsX Dictionary. Retrieved November 5, 2026, from https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/my%20brother%20in%20Christ

MLA

“my brother in Christ.” WatkinsX Dictionary, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/my%20brother%20in%20Christ. Accessed November 5, 2026.

Chicago

WatkinsX Dictionary, s.v. “my brother in Christ,” accessed November 5, 2026, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/my%20brother%20in%20Christ.

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