philerast

plural philerasts · alternative philerastes

1. A boy who feels philia or more specifically anterōs, for his paederastic lover.

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   When in turn they reach man’s estate they love youths themselves[; i]n general terms such people are either paiderasts or philerasts, being always attracted by kindred kind. But when a boy-lover, or any other, chances to meet his own original half, they are both seized with an ecstasy of affection and intimacy and love, and can hardly bear to be separated for as much as a single instant from each other.

   1924, Plato et al., Symposium, page 40

   […] “while they are still boys [i.e., pubescent or pre-adult], they are fond of men, and enjoy lying down together with them and twining their limbs about them, . . . but when they become men they are lovers of boys. . . . Such a man is a paederast and philerast [i.e., fond of or responsive to adult male lovers]” at different stages of his life […]

   1990, David M. Halperin, One hundred years of homosexuality: and other essays on Greek love, page 20

   1997: “Leo”, uk.politics.misc (Google group): Broome House: Paedophiles, the 31st day of August at 8 o’clock a.m. [The Ancient Greeks] also had a word which can be rendered ‘philerast’, meaning a boy who loves his lover.

   Milton strained to redefine marriage as the friendship Socrates recommended — an erotics beyond the sexual. As a result, his notion of marriage sometimes looks a lot like a heteroerotic paederasty, with Adam as the paederast and Eve the philerast destined never to outgrow the role of student and beloved.

   2005, Thomas H. Luxon, Single Imperfection: Milton, Marriage, and Friendship, page 140

   Synonyms: beloved, boy, catamite, darling, erōmenos, pais