self-pity

noun

A feeling of pity for oneself.

“I was sitting in my room, wallowing in self pity, when my favorite TV program came on.”

Meanings

nounself-pity (uncountable)
  1. uncountableA feeling of pity for oneself.

    I was sitting in my room, wallowing in self pity, when my favorite TV program came on.

    1 more example

    Things that were implicit and largely unjudged in the book, filtered through layers of stiff-upper-lip irony — Fanny’s self-pity, Linda’s obliviousness — are now foregrounded and, for the most part, rendered banal, with “Beaches”-level platitudes and sentimentality.

    2021 July 29, Mike Hale, “Review: ‘The Pursuit of Love’ Against All Odds”, in The New York Times

Origin

  1. Proto-Indo-European*swé?
  2. Proto-Indo-European*selbʰ-
  3. Proto-Germanic*selbaz
  4. Old Englishself
  5. Old Englishself-
  6. Middle Englishself-
  7. Englishself-
  8. Englishpity
  9. Englishself-pity

From self- + pity.

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Translations

Bulgarian самосъжаление
  • самосъжаление (samosăžalenie)feeling of pity for oneself
Chinese Mandarin 自憐 /自怜
  • 自憐 /自怜 (zìlián)feeling of pity for oneself
Czech sebelítost, bolestínství
  • sebelítostfeeling of pity for oneself
  • bolestínstvífeeling of pity for oneself
Danish selvmedlidenhed
  • selvmedlidenhedfeeling of pity for oneself
Dutch zelfbeklag, zelfmedelijden
  • zelfbeklagfeeling of pity for oneself
  • zelfmedelijdenfeeling of pity for oneself
Finnish itsesääli
  • itsesäälifeeling of pity for oneself
French apitoiement sur soi-même, autoapitoiement
  • apitoiement sur soi-mêmefeeling of pity for oneself
  • autoapitoiementfeeling of pity for oneself
  • auto-apitoiementfeeling of pity for oneself
German Selbstmitleid
  • Selbstmitleidfeeling of pity for oneself
Greek αυτολύπηση
  • αυτολύπηση (aftolýpisi)feeling of pity for oneself
Hungarian önsajnálat
  • önsajnálatfeeling of pity for oneself
Icelandic sjálfsvorkunn, sjálfsmeðaumkun
  • sjálfsvorkunnfeeling of pity for oneself
  • sjálfsmeðaumkunfeeling of pity for oneself
Italian autocommiserazione
  • autocommiserazionefeeling of pity for oneself
Portuguese autocomiseração
  • autocomiseraçãofeeling of pity for oneself
Romanian autocompătimire
  • autocompătimirefeeling of pity for oneself
Russian жа́лость к себе́
  • жа́лость к себе́ (sebé)feeling of pity for oneself
Spanish autoconmiseración, autocompasión
  • autoconmiseraciónfeeling of pity for oneself
  • autocompasiónfeeling of pity for oneself
  • autolástimafeeling of pity for oneself
  • autoindulgenciafeeling of pity for oneself
Swedish självömkan
  • självömkanfeeling of pity for oneself
Cite this entry
APA

self-pity. (n.d.). In WatkinsX Dictionary. Retrieved November 3, 2026, from https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/self-pity

MLA

“self-pity.” WatkinsX Dictionary, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/self-pity. Accessed November 3, 2026.

Chicago

WatkinsX Dictionary, s.v. “self-pity,” accessed November 3, 2026, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/self-pity.

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