self-pitying

adjective

Pitying oneself; marked by self-pity.

Meanings

adjectiveself-pitying (comparative more self-pitying, superlative most self-pitying)

comparative more self-pitying · superlative most self-pitying

  1. Pitying oneself; marked by self-pity.

    Yet The Smiths' hopelessness has also turned listeners off. Their music seems at times too self-indulgent and self-pitying to be taken seriously.

    1986 August 9, Gerardo Maria Cabrera, “The Smiths Turn to Subtle Self-Parody”, in Gay Community News, page 7

    Synonyms: maudlin, sorry for oneself

Synonyms & antonyms

adjectivePitying oneself; marked by self-pity.

Origin

  1. Proto-Indo-European*swé?
  2. Proto-Indo-European*selbʰ-
  3. Proto-Germanic*selbaz
  4. Old Englishself
  5. Old Englishself-
  6. Middle Englishself-
  7. Englishself-
  8. Englishpitying
  9. Englishself-pitying

From self- + pitying.

Full word history & related roots →

Translations

Czech sebelítostivý, bolestínský
  • sebelítostivýmarked by self-pity
  • bolestínskýmarked by self-pity
Danish selvmedlidende
  • selvmedlidendemarked by self-pity
Dutch zelfmedelijdend
  • zelfmedelijdendmarked by self-pity
German selbstmitleidig
  • selbstmitleidigmarked by self-pity
Swedish självömkande
  • självömkandemarked by self-pity
Cite this entry
APA

self-pitying. (n.d.). In WatkinsX Dictionary. Retrieved November 3, 2026, from https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/self-pitying

MLA

“self-pitying.” WatkinsX Dictionary, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/self-pitying. Accessed November 3, 2026.

Chicago

WatkinsX Dictionary, s.v. “self-pitying,” accessed November 3, 2026, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/self-pitying.

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