tantalize

present singular third person tantalizes · participle present tantalizing · participle past tantalized · past tantalized · alternative tantalise

1. transitiveTo tease (someone) by offering or showing them something desirable but leaving them unsatisfied.

   They could not bear to be tantalized nor tortured by the splendid delusion.

   1880, John Boyle O'Reilly, “The Land of the Red Line”, in Moondyne

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   All pleasures palled upon me; all sights tantalized and tempted me to outspoken treason, because I could not but compare what I saw in Two Dimensions with what it really was if seen in Three, and could hardly refrain from making my comparisons aloud.

   1884, Edwin Abbott Abbott, “Other Worlds”, in Flatland, § 22

   He had been possessed of much fear of his friend, for he saw how easily questionings could make holes in his feelings. Lately, he had assured himself that the altered comrade would not tantalize him with a persistent curiosity, but he felt certain that during the first period of leisure his friend would ask him to relate his adventures of the previous day.

   1895 October, Stephen Crane, chapter XV, in The Red Badge of Courage: An Episode of the American Civil War, New York, N.Y.: D[aniel] Appleton and Company, →OCLC, page 149

   Then he signed the warrior to continue to shoot arrows into the great beast while he attempted to close in upon him with the knife; so as one tantalized upon one side, the other sneaked cautiously in upon the other.

   1913, Edgar Rice Burroughs, The Return of Tarzan, New York: Ballantine Books, published 1963, page 124

   “It was—simply amazing,” she repeated abstractedly. “But I swore I wouldn’t tell it and here I am tantalizing you.”

   1925, F[rancis] Scott Fitzgerald, chapter 3, in The Great Gatsby, New York, N.Y.: Charles Scribner’s Sons, published 1953, →ISBN, page 53

   As we threaded our dim way through the labyrinth with the aid of map and compass[…]we were repeatedly tantalized by the sculptured walls along our route.

   1936, H. P. Lovecraft, chapter IX, in At the Mountains of Madness

   Synonyms: taunt

2. intransitiveobsoleteTo be teased by something desirable that is kept out of reach.

   The poore people in Corinth did ſee, and ſmell, vvhat the rich men taſted, Tantalizing all the vvhile, and having their penury doubled by the Antiperiſtaſis of others plenty[…]

   1640, Thomas Fuller, “A Comment on 1 Cor. II. 20. 21.”, in Ioseph’s Partie-coloured Coat: Containing, a Comment on Part of the II. Chapter of the I. Epistle of S. Paul to the Corinthians. […], London: […] Iohn Dawson, for Iohn Williams, […], →OCLC, page 24