chat up

verb

To talk to (someone) in a friendly, open, or casual manner, sometimes also in a charming or affected manner, usually to curry favor, and sometimes flirtatiously with the intention of establishing a romantic or sexual encounter or relationship with that person.

“He spent all evening chatting her up.”

Meanings

verbchat up (third-person singular simple present chats up, present participle chatting up, simple past and past participle chatted up)

present singular third person chats up · participle present chatting up · participle past chatted up · past chatted up

  1. idiomatictransitiveTo talk to (someone) in a friendly, open, or casual manner, sometimes also in a charming or affected manner, usually to curry favor, and sometimes flirtatiously with the intention of establishing a romantic or sexual encounter or relationship with that person.

    He spent all evening chatting her up.

    1 more example

    Have you been chatting up my girlfriend?

Synonyms & antonyms

verbtalk or behave amorously, without serious intentions

Broader

Synonym sets from Open English WordNet, CC BY 4.0.

Translations

Chinese Mandarin 搭訕 /搭讪
  • 搭訕 /搭讪 (dāshàn)talk in a charming manner
Dutch versieren
  • versierentalk in a charming manner
Finnish liehitellä
  • liehitellätalk in a charming manner
French draguer, emballer
  • draguertalk in a charming manner
  • emballerattempt to establish a sexual relationship
  • allumerattempt to establish a sexual relationship
  • draguerattempt to establish a sexual relationship
German anquatschen, anbaggern
  • anquatschentalk in a charming manner
  • anbaggernattempt to establish a sexual relationship
Polish gawędzić, podrywać
  • gawędzićtalk in a charming manner
  • podrywaćtalk in a charming manner
  • poderwaćtalk in a charming manner
  • flirtowaćtalk in a charming manner
  • podrywaćattempt to establish a sexual relationship
  • poderwaćattempt to establish a sexual relationship
Portuguese cantar, dar em cima de
  • cantartalk in a charming manner
  • dar em cima deattempt to establish a sexual relationship
Spanish chamuyar, camelar
  • chamuyartalk in a charming manner
  • camelartalk in a charming manner
  • tirar los trastostalk in a charming manner
  • echar los perrostalk in a charming manner
  • cepillartalk in a charming manner
  • dar jabón atalk in a charming manner
  • ligotearattempt to establish a sexual relationship
  • tratar de ligar conattempt to establish a sexual relationship
Vietnamese bắt chuyện, thả thính
  • bắt chuyệntalk in a charming manner
  • thả thínhtalk in a charming manner
  • tán tỉnhtalk in a charming manner
Cite this entry
APA

chat up. (n.d.). In WatkinsX Dictionary. Retrieved November 4, 2026, from https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/chat%20up

MLA

“chat up.” WatkinsX Dictionary, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/chat%20up. Accessed November 4, 2026.

Chicago

WatkinsX Dictionary, s.v. “chat up,” accessed November 4, 2026, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/chat%20up.

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