Meanings
plural shrinking violets
- idiomaticA very shy or timid person, who avoids contact with others if possible.First known use early 19th c.
June, no shrinking violet she, crossed the room and introduced herself to the newcomers.
2 more examples
'"Shy", you said, sir! And I think you saw Moya less than six months ago? Well, the shrinking violet has been "had" twice since then for brawling, and if her mother hadn't contrived influenza in the very nick of time I understand that the timid fawn had arranged to chain herself to the minute hand of Big Ben.'
1927, Ernest Bramah [pseudonym; Ernest Brammah Smith], Max Carrados MysteriesLittle Johnny Jones, he was a US pilot / And no shrinking violet was he / He was mighty proud when World War III was declared / He wasn't scared, no siree!
1965, “So Long Mom (A Song for World War III)” (track 1, side 2), in That Was the Year That Was, performed by Tom LehrerSynonyms: shy person
Synonyms & antonyms
nounA very shy or timid person, who avoids contact with others if possible.
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Origin
Possibly from the inconspicuous nature of the violet (genus Viola) flower and plant. The term appears to have been first used in the literal sense in the early 19th century.
Full word history & related roots →Translations
Bulgarian мимоза
- мимоза (mimoza)very shy person
Greek χαμηλοβλεπούσα
- χαμηλοβλεπούσα (chamilovlepoúsa)very shy person
Polish trusia
- trusiavery shy person
Russian недотро́га
- недотро́га (nedotróga)very shy person
Cite this entry
shrinking violet. (n.d.). In WatkinsX Dictionary. Retrieved November 3, 2026, from https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/shrinking%20violet
“shrinking violet.” WatkinsX Dictionary, https://dictionary.watkinsx.com/word/shrinking%20violet. Accessed November 3, 2026.
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